Dat SPARK tho

The art of kissing.

Have you ever had a kiss that you think about for days? Have you ever been able to recreate the spark of his kiss just by thinking about it? Have you ever been on an average date, then he kisses you goodnight and it blows your stomach out of your butt? God Dayyyymn, apparently I have.

Being a good kisser is just as important to me as good conversation. Actually, fuck conversation and just kiss me some more. No, but seriously... Luckily for me I have had two great kissers in my recent past (aka 2 months). But this last one, oh hot damn! I've been realing for 4 days now. When I think about it, all I can do is smile.

We met about a month ago, while I was just starting to date someone else. Well, that someone else, decided to ghost me (see below blog). And thus I extended a sweet little "hey, how are you?" text to the new boy. The first date was pretty standard. Good conversation. Delicious cherry sour beer (YUM). And Italian dinner. The first date wasn't mind blowing but it was still good. We met in this small historic downtown area for drinks and decided to go get dinner somewhere else so I drove. Well at the end of the night I took him back to his car, and he turned to kiss me before he got out of the car. MAAAAAAGIC! Pure magic. I melted. I can't even explain what or how he did what he did, but it was like a drug. I'm hooked. That spark is what everyone wants. Welp, I just might have got it.

Next chaper: Does the spark continue?

To be determined...

Is it me?

Is it me? Am I the problem? I am 27 years old and have been straight up, miss independent, eating ice cream out the container, table for one single for the vast majority of my life. When you are 21 years old being single is the way to be.... who wants to be tied down with a boy when you are at the bars with your girlfriends? When you turn 24, all of your friends are getting married and you think, "Wow! They are getting married so young. Good thing I am single and can still enjoy my alone time". Then you turn 26, all of the sudden you are in your LATE twenties and those friends that got married when they were 24 are having babies and buying houses and loving their wonderful, perfect, married lives. And you think... Damn, I guess I better start looking for a husband. Wellllllll guess what... it's not that easy!!! 

The year was 2014, and after failed blind dates, set ups and no prince charming knocking on my door, I had convinced myself into trying online dating. You know, just to see what's out there. Well it turns out what is out there is a whole lot of men who don't give a fuck about your personality. After two years and hundreds of dead end conversations, a decent amount of first dates and zero second dates, I am here writing a blog about how awesome being single is and how AWFUL dating. Welcome! I am sure to keep you entertained.